Hi! Thanks for stopping by.
I'm going to use this blog as an outlet for my nonbeliving heretical thoughts. I grew up Lubavitch and now live what my parents consider a "modern orthodox" life (simply orthodox might be a better description). However, on the inside I don't believe in God or religion.
I think my username "LubabNoMore" comes off a little harsh. But, I'm not bitter(... anymore). Also, "LubabNoMore" has a catchy feel to it so it'll stay for now.
Because I am married and my wife doesn't share my point of view, my life is complicated. If I didn't love her my life would be a little more simple. I hope I can sort some things out here.
LNM
4 comments:
i wonder how often this happens? I am friends with my cousin's husband on facebook...on my facebook profile under 'religious views' it says "against"...a few weeks back my cousin sent me a message saying "hey i love you religious views..i secretly agree with them. Don't tell anyone"
he is married to my more-orthodox-than-modern cousin, and they have 3 kids...and in every outward way he is living an orthodox life.
Poor girl...
Don't get into the "cold pool" half an inch at a time. Just jump in and in a few seconds it will be "ah mechaye." You got to tell your wife, the woman you love, what the deal is. If she's going to leave you, then face it. She'll cry, not understand, deal with it. You cannot straddle two worlds for long. Lying, and hiding won't be good for her you or anybody. Those guys who hide and sneak have/develop major cognitive disorders.
what works for one dosent work for another. all i can say is, to thine own self be true.
lots of luck.
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